Monday, 23 June 2014

The Plan

What is the plan? That is the million dollar question. Which is approximately how much I have probably spent on plans in the past. I have tried many things with varying levels of success. 

I joined the big WW when I was about 25 and had about 25 pounds to lose. It took several months but it worked very well. I was twenty five though and beyond the fact that I had a very physical job and tons of youthful energy I also had a lot more patience. I just don't think I can go down that road again. It takes so much effort....

I have followed a food combining plan which also worked very well. Especially because I could eat a lot of cheese and meat and fatty foods as long as I ate them in the right combination and followed all the rules. I never felt hungry or deprived on this diet so I have not completely ruled this plan out but I always had a sneaking nagging feeling while I was on this diet that the type of food I was eating was going to kill me. Too good to be true and all that. 

Before I got pregnant with my little guy I wanted to be in the best shape possible so I hit the gym very hard and went for some hypno-therapy to get my mind into the game as well. This was a good combination and along with being extremely careful with what I ate and cutting out all alcohol I got down to my goal weight before I got pregnant and continued to exercise and eat carefully throughout. As an added bonus the hypno-therapy came in handy during the delivery. 

So what is the "new plan". Here is the thing, I am older now and have far less energy and any patience I once had is exhausted by the end of the day. I probably should count calories to stay on track but I just do not want to. It is sooooo tedious. I have read Dr Fuhrman's Eat to Live and it sounds reasonable. I like the idea of eating mostly veggies and fruit. Intuitively this sounds reasonable. Cutting back on meat also seems sensible. I don't like it but I suppose I can eliminate most dairy for a while. I know that cheese should be a treat not a staple as I often have it. Most of all as long as I eat what he recommends I don't have to count or weight anything or think too much about it all. He starts you off on a six week plan to get things going with a bit of a jolt. So Nutritarianism here I come!

Here is a summary of the "rules" I will now be living by (mostly).

Eat as much as you want of:

  • all raw veggies  (goal 1lb daily)
  • cooked green and non-green  veggies (goal 1lb daily)
  • beans, legumes, bean sprouts and tofu (goal 1 cup daily)
  • fresh fruit (at least 4 daily)
Eat a limited amount of:
  • Cooked starchy veggies or whole grains (not more than 1 serving or 1 cup per day)
  • raw nuts and seeds (1 oz max per day)
  • dried fruit (2 tablespoons max per day)
  • avocado (2 oz max per day)
  • ground flax seed (1 tbsp max per day)
Off limits:
  • dairy products
  • animal products
  • between meal snacks
  • fruit juice
  • oils
Once through the six week plan things get a bit more relaxed and you can follow a 90 percent rule.  That is 90 percent of your diet should come from unrefined plant foods and the rest - the fun stuff - is 10 percent - mostly for flavouring. 

So there it is. The "Plan". Yikes! Am I going to be militant about this - no I am not. Life is short and I like food. But I figure if I stick to it most of the time it may work. That is the experiment I suppose. Wish me luck. Now I have to go and finish this nice glass of shiraz. (Oops!)

Saturday, 21 June 2014

The Start

I guess I should begin with the cold hard (well slightly wobbly) facts. 

My measurements (gulp):
         Height - 5ft 6 inches tall
         Age - 43 years
         Weight - 175 lbs
          Fitness Level - non existent ( have joined a dragon boat team but i am pretty sure I am letting them all down)

Most of my life I have "struggled" with my weight. When I was younger I could gain and lose 5 lbs in a matter of days. It was pretty weird. I have always been thin - ish. The thing is I have always been hungry. I can eat and eat and eat. When I was a little girl I was naturally very skinny. All long legs and awkward. I was always hungry - did I mention that. But it didn't matter what I ate it never made a difference - I was still a stick figure. Then, over time things changed. Puberty I suppose. I had all that great body shame we put ourselves through. I ate sporadically. Maybe not anorexic but definitely not healthy. Days without eating. Other days I binged. But all along I have always been hungry. ALL THE TIME. Ridiculous. 

Obviously my metabolism has caught up with me over time. Weight goes on and it does not come off now. I have always struggled to be fit but with the whole becoming a mom thing I just can't do it any more. I need to get back on my bike but I am dreading it. Getting in shape sucks. Maybe some people don't think so but I do. It hurts. It is annoying. Boring. Time consuming. And it takes so much effort and energy. Ugh!

Okay, I am done my whining!  I need to get back to a sane weight again. 135-140 lbs. I am no spring chicken and I want to be here for a while for the little guy.... And fit into clothing again. So how shall I do it. Well, I have done lots of things in the past of course. I really can't bear counting calories and weighing food and such. I need something more reasonable. Less militant. Maybe I am being silly. At a time when my body is slowing down I somehow think I can get back in shape while doing less (and drinking wine). This  plan does not sound promising. Well, I guess this is an experiment. We shall see what happens. And if my body decides to cooperate.

Next post I will fill you in on the plan. (Gulp!)


         

Welcome to Big Mama Anonymous

So, apparently, I am now a "big mama", according to my husband soul mate at least. Nice guy huh. I thought that I would start this blog so that I could share my stories with you. You know, recount my harrowing tales of sorrow and turmoil as I try to grapple with my new reality of being a big momma - sob.

What I really want to do is motivate myself to lose some damn weight, and my status as a big momma, while still retaining my sanity  - and drinking the occasional glass of wine (or two or three). This blog is going to motivate me to get my act together, right?

Join along as I entertain you with my hilarious tales of triumph and defeat... and swollen feet. Okay, I am no poet. But I am the slightly older (43) momma of an absolutely adorable  2 year old little man. This has been a huge adjustment from my previous adults only lifestyle but I am starting to get the hang of it. Thus the wine....